The “Mattering Instinct”: Finding Meaning in a Chaotic World
In a world often defined by chaos and entropy, the human quest for meaning stands out as a defining characteristic. Philosopher Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, in her new book “The Mattering Instinct,” delves into this fundamental human desire, arguing that our longing to matter is not just a psychological quirk, but an evolutionary imperative. But how do we actually achieve this sense of mattering, and is there one path that resonates more deeply than others?
Resisting Entropy: The Biological Roots of Meaning
Goldstein’s exploration begins with a stark reality: the law of entropy. This fundamental law of physics dictates that everything naturally tends towards disorder and decay. All living beings, therefore, must dedicate significant energy to simply surviving, to resisting this inevitable decline. However, humans possess a unique capacity for self-reflection. We become aware of our own mortality and the fact that we are primarily focused on our own survival. This awareness, Goldstein suggests, creates a need for justification. We seek to validate our self-centered existence, leading to the development of the “mattering instinct.”
Beyond Self-Preservation: The Quest for Significance
This instinct manifests in various ways. People seek meaning through achievement, relationships, creativity, or contributing to something larger than themselves. But Goldstein argues that true mattering goes beyond mere self-preservation or personal gain. It involves a sense of connection to something meaningful outside of ourselves, a feeling that our existence has a purpose that transcends our individual lives. This could involve contributing to a community, working towards a cause, or engaging in activities that bring joy and connection to others.
Finding Your Path to Mattering
The beauty of Goldstein’s theory lies in its adaptability. While the “mattering instinct” is universal, the specific ways in which we fulfill it are deeply personal. Some might find purpose in raising a family, while others might dedicate their lives to scientific discovery. The key is to identify activities and relationships that resonate with our values and provide a sense of connection and contribution.
Ultimately, the search for meaning is a lifelong journey. It’s about acknowledging our innate desire to matter and actively seeking ways to connect with something larger than ourselves. By resisting the pull of entropy, not just physically, but also existentially, we can find true meaning and fulfillment in a world that often feels chaotic and uncertain.
Based on materials: Vox
